Stop hurting yourself,girlfriends!

Greetings.okay,at first i was gonna go for "Love is a Lie" as the tittle.but then,i realize how subjective the 4 letters word are and decided to use the above tittle instead.Lately, most of my girlfriends keeps on bugging me(in a good way,of course) about their so-called love stories.i'm sorry, it's not that i hate being a listener to my friends but let just say,i heard enough.Truthfully,every stories that every single of u had told me are mostly likely to have the same storyline. please,girls,for your own sake,this time THINK deeply, rationally.LOVE from a man.Is that what your life is about?

"Seorang perempuan punyai hati yang lembut,mudah dipengaruhi dan juga disakiti.Hati seorang perempuan sangat mudah menyayangi dan sukar untuk melupakan"

i believe that everyone of u know this perfectly well.so why go on being like this?i hated that the fact most of us are so easily being cheated and used.but what make me sad is how easy a girl would give in.simply trust and love random boys out there who is hardly reliable!common girls...

if ur going to tell me that not all boys are bad,well don't.first,i heard that like a thousand times.and,surprisingly,i heard that from boys whom had histories.second,exactly,how many of the 'tak semua lelaki mcm tu' colonies are currently available?and,tell me how many had u met?

Nak jugak kapel?entahlah.im tired of telling u bout the dalil,hukum and so ever.aku dgn gembiranya telling others that couple is haram in Islam but what did i get as replies?ignorance,ketidaksetujuan and people start judging me.nice!exactly what i need.so,xpe lah if u don't even trust in that statement, think about life. kalau tak de boyfriend tuh, awkward ker? yelah,i understand,in the midst of where everyone is happily having their so-called spouse,naluri tuh sure ader utk find yourself one,kan?nak texting all day long,bergayut kt phone,having someone admiring u n etc...undoubtly tempting,i suppose?tapi,can u handle the heartbreak when eventually u found out that the guy is not really what u think he is?can't u still focus on your study?on your life?*sigh*

"Habes,ko nak aku jadi lesbo?"no girl.nanti nabi xmengaku umat,tanah x terima.bagi aku, loving or liking someone is much different from officially having a relationship with someone.perasaan tuh tak salah.klu x,tuhan takkan cipta kasih-sayang.but,learn how to control it.don't let it control u,u are the one who ought to control your feeling. the one who decide everything.what's going to happen next,itu urusan Tuhan,kan? have faith.banyak lagi benda selain bercinta ni...some of u berkapel sbb lack of love from families.i know how it feels,but the rest?sorry,i couldn't reach u.tp,kasih sayang tuh universal.loves from boys is one of choices u have.kasih sayang kawan-kawan?i believe they are more worth it.&&,stop being a slave to emotions,desire and lust.

i also have this one person in my mind.i mean,though i like him a lot,i keep on telling myself,that this is not yet time.plus,i'm certain that he's the kind of guy who's gonna love me truely. or maybe,i'll never have a chance with him at all.but,tak pelah.life is a long journey,u'll never know who else will you meet.

i'm not dragging u guys into the old fashioned and single life of mine,but im just concern and trying to be a friend here.don't let your heart defy logics.aku tak suruh kaw single sampai mati laaa!kahwin tuh sunnah,kan?harus,klu dah cukup syarat.just wait a little bit longer.future!masa depan,penting,yunk.but,klu korg degil jugak,aku cakp sumer slh,suka hatilah.i've done my part. i say what i saw.frankly,in these 2 months,i've seen more than 5 loving couples who end up not very well.i've seen the girls'suffers.n,u might forgot,i've been there too.but,if ever he hurts u and need shoulder to cry to,im available.but,know that i can never help u turn back time...