Allow me to boost up your spirit :)

Harlow,folks...this time around, i somehow have something to share with u guys.seems like,lately my life was bullshit.too busy to hesitate.still,i have time to waste.lol.hows that?whatever,leave it.i've got this from a little friend of mine.i think,mostly have known about this,but STILL i wanna share with u!i insist,oke? take time to read,it's gonna make u go,woohooot! i never think of tat!

well,at least,i did!

The Mayonnaise Jar

When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember 

The mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

 A professor stood before his philosophy class

and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar

And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.

They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that 


This JAR represents your LIFE.

The GOLF BALLS are the important things 
- family,children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –

Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, 

Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else - The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,

there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.

The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
There will always be time for homeworks,assignments and everything~

'Take care of the golf balls first!
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Please share this with other "Golf Balls" 
I just did......

LIFE ISN'T ABOUT WAITING FOR THE STORM TO PASS...
IT'S LEARNING HOW TO DANCE IN THE RAIN!

Jom ramai-ramai kutok Fynn!

bukan Fynn Jamal,

ko nak aku kena attack dengan her fans kah?

taik!

Fynn = aku

so,if anyone rasa tak puas hati,bengang or anything,

ni la peluang korang....

bukan senang aku nak kasik permission korang kutuk aku F.O.C.

lately aku sangat tension,busy dan serabot!

assignments punya lah menimbun,

asal free je,godek facebook!

pemalas!!!

and,

kenapa lately aku suka sangat cari pasal dengan mahlok-mahlok Allah yang sengal huh?

mana kesabaran aku yang tinggi menggunung dulu,weh?

siapa gatal tangan sangat curi?

bagi balik!!!

kenapa mulot aku dah tak terkawal dah sekarang nih!

asal silap sikit,mencarut!

hishhhh!

dah macam bitch,taw tak?!

mana dulu,cakap nak berubah la,

nak jadi baik la,

lagi jahat ada la!

dah tu,bising...

gelak terbahak-bahak tak ingat dunia...

belajar malas....

kenapa Fynn?

kenapa??!

nak jadi macam dulu ke?

nak biar that guy menang macam tu je?

nanti nak jawab ape kat mama?

ayah?

adik-adik?

don't tell me that u've forgotten ur vow,

everything he had done to you,

how much pain u had endure to make it this far?

all those hatred,underestimated???

was the pain fade that fast?

have the wound completely heal?

huh?
sorry,tak dengar?
NO,isn't it...
so, why like this?

i've been to far.
thanks for the wake up call.
another cliche' :: love gonna have to wait (thought i've put FULLSTOP)

Cliche'

Is there any paper stuck behind my head

saying ;

"TAKE ME FOR GRANTED?"

no?yes?*sigh*

but then,again...

i know where i stand...

i thot by being nice to others,

they will treat u almost the same.

at least CLOSE.

*long silence*

but,

sheet!

i'm hating the fact tat i always be the one who'd listen to u,

the one who always making u laugh like crazyyy,

brightened up your day,

wipe away your sorrow,

while,

i'm the one who needs to let things out,

the one who've been surrounded with tears,

one whom her day is gloomy,

and need a sunshine~

i try and smile again today,
so u will smile,
that person just constantly make u cry,
so i wanna make u smile however i can,
i'm in love by myself,
for me its so hard,i cant bear it,
but because you crying is worse to me than dying,
i smile again for u today...

i love u,because i love u,
because if u just exist, i'm happy,
though my heart aches,
i try and smile again...
like a person giving smiles,
like a person with no sadness,
today,
i try and cry silently behind your back again.  

though it's tough enough to kill me,

though it hurts like crazy,

i smile.

Makan budak!!!atau nak gantung je?

Salam peeps :)

as promised,tis time around, i'm gonna post about law.

so,it might be boringgg for most of u,

but i indeed found tis topic interesting.

and,based on tat, im gonna use tis as my BEL342's term paper 2.

and also,i've used tis for my presentation for my social psychology's subject.

hell jyeahhh,i did real BAD on tat evening.

who cares?i sucks at public speaking~

HUKUM MATI & KANAK-KANAK

(sorry,tis pic might be disturbing for some)

how does that sounds to you?

genius?

immoral?

or,

(fill in the blank)

for those yang tak pernah dengar akan rasa hukuman macam ni sangat ridiculous, kejam dan tak rasional.kan?     untuk pengetahuan kita semua, dalam dunia ni,ada beberapa negara yang mengamalkan hukuman gantung bagi kanak-kanak nih,contohnya IRAN.i dont know for sure whether Iran still apply this prosecution or not sekarang but as far as i knew, the most controvertional death penalty for minors(age below majority,dalam negara kita,umur majority=18) came from Iran lah.the case of

 Mahmoud Asgari & Ayaz Marhoni.

Dalam kes ni, both offenders merogol seorang kanak-kanak lelaki berumur 13 tahun.kejam tak?Diorang masing-masing 16 tahun dan 18 tahun. Kesalahan peratama adalah merogol itu sendiri,kedua, homosexuality.what made the case too controversial is that, the prosecution was made public.  

Bukan kat Iran je,budak-budak mengganas macam ni. I've read this newspaper article about a 13-years old boy yang membunuh anak perempuan cikgu tusyennya yang berumur 12 tahun. That boy killed the girl by stabbing her 20 times with a knife and then sliced her into pieces.

Don't be surprised,but even in Malaysia we have our own child murderer! Kes bunuh seorang pelajar tingkatan 4 oleh 8 orang pelajar tingkatan 5... google up!u guys akan jumpa kes nih.

and, FYI, death penalty bukan untuk kesalahan membunuh je,oke? drug traffickers pon boleh digantung.

from one perspective, i would say that even they are still minor or children, they are capable of doing such crimes. kalau forever, minors yang commit such crimes asyik terlepas daripada hukuman dengan alasan umur, tak mustahil one day more of them akan buat perkara keji dan salah macam ni. Even aku pon rase menyesal tak bunuh orang masa aku still minor.

alah,,,paling terok, masok Henry Gurney..kan?

But, yes of course, kalau nak decide anything,we gotta have an overall view! so, from another perspective, memang tak patot la,budak-budak kena death penalty,kan? first, sebab mental capacity kanak-kanak nih tak sama dengan dewasa.and,maybe jugak diorang ni membesar dalam persekitaran yang mendorong diorang ke arah tu.ouh,one more thing United Nation, Declaration of Human Right tak membenarkan hukuman gantung dilakukan ke atas minor aka kanak-kanak.

Section 97 of Child Act, Malaysia stated that: no death penalty shall be imposed on minor.

jadi,budak-budak yang dijatuhi hukuman ni kat Malaysia takkan kena gantung. Tapi,i don't know for sure whether the law stay this way. sebab? juvenile offender yang membunuh diletakkan under the pleasure of Yang di-Pertuan Agong but this has go against the separation of power of Malaysia. means,there's no clear cut on this matter yet.as we all know,law evolve all the times...so,whatcha think?

patut ke we make death penalty legal for minor???

as for me.i'll say

NO

sebab tats my thesis statement for my term paper...lalala~

According to U! :)

OMG! i'm so freaking addicted to this song~
seriously,according to u...

According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.
According to you
I'm difficult,
hard to please,
forever changing my mind.
I'm a mess in a dress,
can't show up on time,
even if it would save my life.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

According to you
I'm boring,
I'm moody,
you can't take me any place.
According to you
I suck at telling jokes cause I always give it away.
I'm the girl with the worst attention span;
you're the boy who puts up with that.
According to you. According to you.

But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
so baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you.

I need to feel appreciated,
like I'm not hated. oh-- no--.
Why can't you see me through his eyes?
It's too bad you're making me decide.

According to me
you're stupid,
you're useless,
you can't do anything right.
But according to him
I'm beautiful,
incredible,
he can't get me out of his head.
According to him
I'm funny,
irresistible,
everything he ever wanted.
Everything is opposite,
I don't feel like stopping it,
baby tell me what I got to lose.
He's into me for everything I'm not,
according to you. [you, you]
According to you. [you, you]

According to you
I'm stupid,
I'm useless,
I can't do anything right.



sebab aku sangattttt baek hati,to whom yang haven't heard of tis song,here ; i got u the link to download the song!

According To You!

Thought that i could do almost anything~

but,

ECONOMICS

i'm a total hopeless!

enaff said~

Isn't it?

peace (:

Jom belajar psychology!

Hello kawan-kawan,hari ni,Cegu Fynn nak ajar korang PSYCHOLOGY,oke?
p/s:to beloved 'assassins' of law fac,don't be so hard on me,okay~

oke,oke,
ahem!

actually,tanpa korang sedari,throughout your daily life, there will be (i'd rather say,times) u guys akan judge others. somehow, in the midst of EVERYTHING,u tend to make few of attribution errors (senang cakap, judgment yang inaccurate)!

one of 'em;

Actor-Observer Bias.("You fall, I was pushed!")

In simple,this type of error can be defined by the kind of bias to the one person who actually undergoing this certain situation (the actor) and another who completely watches what's happening to the other person (the observer).

Contoh paling lame dan senang:

Situasi #1 ::

Korang tengah sedap lepak-lepak buang masa kat Starbuck, tiba-tiba ada sorang mamat ni tak pasal-pasal, jatuh tersemban depan korang. Dalam hati, sure korang akan kata ;

Haihhh...mamat nih,control macho lah tu! Aku lawa sangat kot sampai jalan tak reti tengok bawah!haha

Situasi #2 ::

Korang tengah beratur nak beli air kat cafe. Then, ada pulak mamat handsome kalah Leonardo de Caprio tengah melepak kat situ. Lepas je korang beli air tuh, tiba-tiba cup yang korang pegang jatuh,habis basah baju dengan kopi!(ambek kaw!haha) Dalam hati, comfirm ;

$#%@,taik betol pak cik nih. Aku mintak sirap limau tadi, apasal tetiba bertukar jadik kopi panas nih!

see?betul tak?betul tak? tanpa korang sedari, bila something funny, accidents or clumsy(shall i say?) terjadi kat orang lain, automatik orang tuh yang salah. tapi, bila kena batang hidung sendiri, memang semua salah orang,kan?

Self-Serving Bias ("You're lucky, I'm good")

This kind of error tend to happen when we want to make ourselves feel good or better. We inclined to say that any positive outcomes that happen to us is solely because of internal factors (ourselves), and those negative outcomes are the result of the external changes (others).

Bias macam nih, memang tiap-tiap hari pergi kelas aku nampak.haila...haila...

Situasi #1 ::

Dalam 1 lecture/ kelas ni, lecturer/cikgu korang kasik korang 1 task berkumpulan. which mean, u gotta work as a group. So, disebabkan korang ni agak bijaksana lah kan....groupmates korang pon letak 100% trust on u. so, setiap keputusan or penyelesaian or jawapan semua idea korang lah, majoritinya. Then, bila selesai present jawapan kat depan, lecturer/cikgu korang gelakkan jawapan korang tuh. katanya, tak rasional, dan definitely SALAH. Korang pon,dengan pantas mengatakan ;

Tulah korang, kan dah salah. Lain kali jangan nak harap aku je. Try la fikir jugak....

Situasi #2 ::

Situasi sama macam Situasi #1, tapi kali nih, lecturer/cikgu korang puji group korang. Jawapan yang korang kasik tuh, tepat dan sangat impressive. and,,, tanpa membuang masa ;

Tengok,kawan-kawan.pandai kan,aku? Biasalah, bab-bab ni,memang aku expert!

Nampak tak perbezaan dalam situasi 1 dan 2? Self-Service Bias, u will give credits to yourself if ur succeeded but harsh critism to others if u face failure.Sama macam test dan exam lah. kalau dapat A tuh, kembang-kempis je hidung tu.konon pandai macam albert Einstein lah...tapi, sekali dapat E, mula lah... cikgu salah tanda lah....marking strict lah...kan?kan?!

Mesti selalu kan, kita berhadapan dengan situasi-situasi macam nih? cuma kadang-kadang kita je yang tak sedar~ Tapi sekarang, kita dah sama-sama tahu,takkan nak buat lagi benda yang sama kot? maybe not drastically change, but bit by bit mesti boleh,kan?tapi,yang aku hairan bin ajaib, kenapa lah orang yang lagi bijak daripada aku yang belajar benda yang sama, tanpa segan silu memperhebatkan skills-nya dari hari ke hari eh?hurm....dah memang azali,kot?

p/s:salah silap harap tego.best tak blaja psychology? nanti aku ajar law pulak!haha

Not for me~

what am i trying to tell u?

nineteen is near weyyy!!!

it STIFF,

as still as barks of the woods,

dull

yea,right~

let me go home!!!

got a couple of days to turn myself into this~

good luck, Fynn

I'm not Brit-ish,not even close to M-A-rican

not gonna write much.

currently suffered from temporary AWFUL flu,

and obviously,

not loving it!

who likes mucus,huhh?!!

got mock debate of unbalance crews in line,

*(please,i really loves immature feedbacks which full with hypocrisy!)

so does persuasive speech!

gosh =_=''

"madam carol,kindly give me excuse for this task,boley ka?"

planning to go on

  "PUPPY LOVE"

suka lah tuh!

what'd u think?

cukup pathetic tak,my post this time?
tired.fucked up.flu-ing.super done.
farewell.
test phyco this week,oke!!!

p/s:i'm proudly MALAYSIAN,if u can't tell.;D

Grrrr...UPU,MUET...help me!

okayyy,done with upu.

habes 3 kali kemaskini aku guna ;D

at last,i've made my mind jugak*winks

thanks to kak hidayat from UKM.

i owe u a lot!

however,

the problem had arrived!

taikkkkk!

aku salah isi angka giliran untuk muet bagi borang upu!

*shettt

how eh?

anyone?help me out?pleaseeeee....

and,,

the MUET thingy!

uhhh..it got me fed up!

everywhere i go,people keeps asking,

"wey,dah check blom?band brape?"

bapak arrr....mmg muet aku penting utk kaw,kan?

so,everytime people ask,

i'll say

"yup.dah check"

"band?"

"band 10!(BEN 10)"

kan dah kena.sebok >,<

one more thing,

recently i've been soooo busy,

REAL busy.

dgn assignmentsnyer,debates lagi,test tak kate lah kan!

so,blog,sila bersarang~

sayang korang!

bukti kesibukkan aku.haha!

Is he'll be hang to death?

slm peeps (:

sorry,i've been away for like decades,i think?

 it just life getting tougher and routines are jammed pack...

having classes from 8 to 6 everyday with those struggles i had just to get in the bus at very dawn, 

boleh bikin mati laa weyyy~

but yet,im still alive and kicking,ahha!

and,because of tat very reason,

last Wednesday,my class and some others managed to have our solo visit 

to the gigantic Malaysia's very own Palace of Justice,or even proudly to be called,

ISTANA KEHAKIMAN.

(bold tat?teeheee)

i bet not many of u ever heard of it,before...

shamelessly speaking i never thought any way in the world that Malaysia could possibly own such a place,

but of course until last Wednesday.

o em gee...the view, the interior design and everything was freaking awesome!!!

it did well in making me regrets my decision not to continue with the Interior Design's path.

*sigh*

then, we've been served with a presentation which got (i believe) everyone eyes glazed over and the spirit is once again lighten!

ouh,ya!thanks to this one guy for the last Q!

 i mean, what in the world will those judges gonna do with salary of RM54,000 monthly??!

well,of course, ada sebab,okay?nak tahu,sila tanya~

here's some pics ;

*there are lots more,trust u.but,heck my phone was punahranah,therefore no pic from my own hands but others.so,nak dapat susah...until then,have a look at these first (:

tis was taken when we're waiting for the bus.

woohooot!i woke up damn early!*grinn

in the foyer,i think?

the law library *sigh*

nvm,the words said it all

i am so gonna wear tat suit one day!

tis is in the moot court (with candle people all over the place)

not to mention,the law students and flood of flashes.

*if u know what i mean*

ouh,yesss.about the topic.

when i was there,i got the chance to witness a great proceeding.

but,sayang i didn't manage to be part of the anwarIbrahim's case and the jet's engine one!

(tulah,berebut la lagi nak masuk court awal!)

first case tat i heard was,a civil case : about a contract.

thankGod i've learnt it basically,so i'm not that blur lah~

Second case was what got me and few others miss our very chance of snapping pictures at the so called tangga bollywood,and the worst,

of meeting Sir Karpal Singh,

every law student's idol~

(omg,i wanna cry T_T)

but sure,not for some,look at it from the positive side la ceqqq...

haila~haila~

the case of Drug trafficking.

so,what's with it?

oh,well nothing...just it's a criminal case and,

the prisoner who sat exactly to our left with handcuffs on,

is about to get capital sentenced,or in simple :

HANG to DEATH.

gantung,oke?GANTUNG!

from what i heard,he had been framed.

but yes of course la his lawyer will stand for him.

yang tak boleh blah,tat lawyer salah buat tuntutan kes!

at first,the Lady(first judge) said,

what left to appeal?death sentence means death sentence!

thankgoodness, she then said,

i give u time,because this is not just a thing.

it's about death.

by the time,i could see tat the prisoner keeps on reciting something throughout the trial.

mengucap,maybe?berdoa?

surprisingly, the public prosecutor was a girl!

and she's chinese!

everyone whos wearing the lawyer's suits there was mostly indian,

where are all the MALAYS?

not that im being racist,but think about it~

anyhow,this trip is certainly better than the trip to the parliament dulu.haha ;D

addition! XD

Award for YOU!

yes,

YOU!

Fynn is giving away an award ??!

LOL.it's my first time.so, please don't be so hard on me,okay?
plus,every software tat can be used to edit tis so called award had ROSAKPUNAH.so~

just grab this award oryte!

specially made for my followers!!!

i love u guys sooooo muchos!

thanks for being such a GREAT supporters!

keep the comments coming,yeah?

p/s: tgk mahlok mushroom nih,it reminds me of roti impit aka hotdog yg superb delicious kat cempaka!woohoot! ;D

p/s/s: kena jugak ader Tabi oppa sebab recently ada mahlok nak rampas dia!taikkkk!